Invitation to baby shower

Sd has been calling up her dad quite frequent these past week.  She wants her dad’s opinion who she should be inviting for her baby shower.   Her mom reminded SD to invite ME for the shower, and that was why she sent that email to us.  SD’s mom and sister are getting the party invitations on SD’s behalf whicl is driving SD crazy.  She feels like the shower is for them instead its for her.  DB told her that is her mom, she needs to be involved with everyone’s lifes.  I told him I’m going to stay out of this.